Salamatak – Seniors

Just like we change the way we talk when we talk to children, we have to adjust the way we talk to seniors to avoid hurting their feelings. Here are some phrases you might say to a senior that could be interpreted negatively:

• “How could you forget? Or how did you not remember this!”

The older people get, the quicker they lose their ability to retain information, especially short-term memories such as forgetting where they left their keys, or important dates

Instead, help them remember in a kind way by using sticky notes to remind them of any important events such as hospital appointments or when to take their medication

• “I’ve already explained this to you!”

It is difficult for seniors to recall certain things. Some tasks may seem very easy to us but are quite difficult for a senior; like operating a remote.

Instead, try to be patient and re-explain it, and help them if they ask you to.

• “You’ve already said that… I know, you told me yesterday”

Seniors may repeat themselves more than once due to their poor memory. This repetition can also be caused by loneliness and their longing to talk with their loved ones without having interesting and exciting discussions.

Instead, pretend it’s the first time you’ve heard of the story, interact with them and ask them about its details.